What Women Really Want On Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine's day!

Happy Valentine's day! (Photo credit: DonnaGrayson)

Most men think women love chocolate and flowers on Valentine’s Day; but do they? According to a recent survey by dating website eHarmony, 87% of women said a gift is not important to them, and they would rather their partner just spend time with them on Valentine’s Day.

The survey also found that:

  • Only 23% of women surveyed said they would like a traditional Valentine’s Day gift like flowers and chocolate
  • More than one-third of women said they would like to receive a gift related to their personal hobby or passion
  • 97% of women said they would prefer another type of gift over lingerie

What gift would you buy for your girlfriend or wife? Would you write or quote a poem for Valentine’s Day?

And ladies, what do you really love to get on Valentine’s Day? Share in the comment below.

Why It’s So Important For Men To Own Their Own Issues [relationship]

This is an interesting post on Psychology Today, which discusses why it’s so important for men to own their own issues. He lists three reasons:

  1. The second worst thing a woman can do to a man is to make him feel inadequate.  [The worst thing she can do to us is to cheat on us.]
  2. Men are NOT the only ones with crap.
  3. Humble men are the very best men on the face of the earth.

You agree, guys or gals?

Take A Lifetime to Find Love? Share Your View & Win the Grand Prize

time-is-love

A microsite shows two views about love and asks what you think:

  • Take a lifetime to find love? Or,
  • Seize a moment for passion?

So far, there seems to be more support of the first view (about 70%). What do you think? You can share you view here and you could win the grand prize.

How Do You Know You Like Someone?

Via Psychology Today,

There is a lot of work in Psychology showing that you can come to like someone (or some thing for that matter) not because of anything they have done, but just because you tend to feel good when you are around them. There is a procedure called evaluative conditioning that shows how this can happen.

7 First Date Mistakes that Won’t Get You Laid

via topcultured.com,

Before you bust out those slick moves, take a moment to review these common mistakes. If you commit these love crimes, chances are the next time you and Patty Payroll are alone in an elevator it will be nothing but awkward silences and shifty eyes… instead of the steamy ball-grabbin’ make-out session it could be. So without further ado, here are the 7 deadly sins of first dates, guaranteed to nix your chances at a second.

Start Your Pair Blog with Your Friend, Lover, or Parent

loveloggerLoveLogger.com is the World’s First Pair-Blogging Platform, where ONLY a pair of users can register to share just about anything the two can blog about. The pair could be you & your friend, you & your spouse/lover, you & your mom/dad/child, you & your business partner or you & your student /teacher.

Lovelogger.com

10 Clues You Are Getting Dumped (for Guys)

breaking-upMSN Lifestyle has an interesting article giving 10 clues guys are getting dumped. Here is a summary of the ten clues: [Read more...]

Do You Respond with as Much Passion After 20 Years (True Love)

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SCIENTISTS have discovered true love. Brain scans have proved that a small number of couples can respond with as much passion after 20 years as most people exhibit only in the first flush of love.

The findings overturn the conventional view that love and sexual desire peak at the start of a relationship and then decline as the years pass.

Scientists discover true love

How to Be A Perfect Lover

If you want your girlfriend to be perfect, watch this video of “How to be a perfect boyfriend” because you have to be perfect to deserve a perfect girlfriend.

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How Making Love Saves Your Life

Making love doesn’t just help you feel good. It also burns calories, boosts your immune system – and can even reduce the risk of cancer.

via Psychology in the News

Engagement Ring Finger

engagement ring finger image
Photo Credit: Wikipedia

Many people in Singapore (including me =) are not clear which finger is the engagement ring finger. Do you know?

Let’s catch up with some background knowledge about engagement ring:

In Western tradition, an engagement ring is a ring worn by a woman indicating her engagement to be married. In some countries, such as the United Kingdom, it is worn on the left-hand ring finger, while in other countries, such as Poland and Ukraine, it is customary for the ring to be worn on the right-hand. By modern convention in countries such as the United States, the ring is usually presented as a betrothal gift by a man to his prospective bride while or directly after she accepts his marriage proposal. It represents a formal agreement to future marriage.

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Happy Mother’s Day

M = Motivater

O = Onlyone

T = Truelove

H = Heartiest

E = Exceptional

R = Responsible

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Quotes for Mother’s Day

Just received this beautiful one from a friend:

God couldn’t be everywhere and therefore he made Mother.

THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PERSON ON THIS EARTH…

OUR BEST CRITIC …

YET OUR STRONGEST SUPPORTER…

mother and daughter

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85% Wanted to Get Married

weddingI’m going to attend a good friend’s wedding ceremony this Saturday! Actually she is even younger than me but she is…

Today read a piece of news from ChannelNewsAsia saying that 85% of 3,015 singles polled wanted to get married. While, the top 2 reasons some don’t want to:

  • not having met a suitable partner
  • choosing to concentrate on studies or career

It’s good to read this piece:

The 2007 survey found that 83 per cent of respondents agreed that the current marriage and parenthood package had created a more family-friendly environment which is conducive for having and raising children.

Dear reader, do you want to get married? Why or why not?

New Singapore Matchmaking Service

match makingFinding love is getting more difficult because many Singaporeans simply do not have the time. So the new matchmaking institute, Matchmaking Institute Southeast Asia, aims to give singles a hand. Are you still single? If yes, why not give it a try? =) You can read more here about this matchmaking institute.